I'm wrestling right now (for the first time) with the age appropriateness of my hair. While I'm not quite ready to begin to crop it close to my head in the gender-defying perm that so many older ladies seem to favor, I'm also wondering if I can really pull off the lengths that heretofore have characterized my hair. I am sensitive to my desire to walk that fine line between hey! I'm a 55 year old Brittney Spears wanna-be and who cares that my 13-year-old daugther is ashamed of my antics; she's just jealous! and the woman who abandons any semblance of an attempt to present herself attractively to the world because she's too tired and the thought of the exertions required make her feel even more so. I wish to be classicly tasteful and right now, I'm not sure that my current hair reflects that. What do you think? Any suggestions? I know there are stylists among you and I need your help.